fingering my ass while jerking off/getting jerked off/blowjob. tasting my own cum sometimes.
I would say the hardest thing I’ve ever done sexually is communicate with my partner about the things that I want.
I know that’s not like a cool sexy talk thing to get people excited to read.
But it is so hard to look your girlfriend in the eye and tell her that you want to titty fuck her or tie her up or whatever your kink is.
Putting yourself out there for judgment and possible ridicule is difficult.
One of the first things I do with a potential partner. Not many people know about the site / that something like this exists. But I have had success asking multiple people to go through it when we were just at the flirting stage.
Basically it has a list of sexual acts and you check off what you like, what you could do for the partner if they want you to, and what’s off limits. It only shows you things you both like / would maybe do, so no judgement. You can hotseat it on a single PC, or my preffered method, send them a link, they fill it out at the same time as you and you only get results when both of you finish.
Obviously it requires someone you trust completely so they don’t fill out something “just to check if you are a freak”, but that is something that breaks trust, so you probably wouldn’t want to have sex with someone untrustworthy.
My girlfriend never wanted to let me cum in her mouth. And I didn’t want to try it because it wasn’t going to be any fun for me if she was just doing it for me. I also didn’t want to see her gagging and frowning. But then she said, without any prompting from me, that she wanted to try it. I think it had been a topic of discussion with some of her girl friends and that’s what put her in the frame of mind to try it. And she actually enjoyed it. She didn’t swallow. She just let it shoot in her mouth and dripple out.
Because of social pressure and the fact that I’d only been in relationships with girls, it took me years before I dared to experiment with gay sex too.
I thought the big novelty would be anal sex. I like it, but the real thing is oral sex. In the end, I don’t know if I’d rather lick a pussy or suck a dick, or get sucked off by someone who’s good at it.
I only realised I’m ace at some point.
Cum in my mouth. I’ve always had a bit of a cum fetish, but was scared of the taste. One day I asked by FWB to cum in my mouth and now I love it.
Besides the taste women have told me that there’s something about the texture of cum that they didn’t like. Was that an issue for you?
I’ve heard that too but I didn’t really have an issue with the texture.
Talking about it at all, with strangers online, felt surprisingly freeing. I could finally express myself!
