That’s the definition of bi-curious
It doesn’t matter does it?
Why are you obsessed with labels? That’s how we got that whole mess with pronouns; as far as I’m concerned these labels are another manifestation of people that used to be obsessed with job titles. Binmen became Personal refuse executives; they did the same job.
If you’re happy with what you’re doing sexually, it won’t take you long to describe it to someone in the same sexual ballpark.
Just be you, everyone else is already taken.
You would be bicurious. Most men exist on the Kinsey scale at some level. Most humans exist there too.
Societally though, it’s only okay for women to be bisexual and not acceptable for men to be bisexual, which is why most men suppress their curiosity until much later in life.
I do believe the Kinsey scale is a real thing (lived in a red state, so arguments)
I don’t want to do dudes, on a grand scale.
But Ryan Reynolds is handsome, funny, and rich. I’m not sure if I could say no to that, especially if he was a bottom. Not sure I could bottom.
That being said, I was dating a bi girl, who had a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend. She was working on a threesome, and promised if I kissed her gay friend if dared (truth or dare game) she would make it happen.
So, the dare came, I kissed the dude. It was, to put it bluntly, not my thing. That being said, I hated that dude. I knew him before he came out, and after. He was no longer himself, he was a gay stereotype. He didn’t have a lisp before he came out, so to speak.
Then, as the night was finishing up and we were giving her friend a “ride” her ex showed up. Soured the whole deal.
Oh well. At least I know that I’m firmly on the straight end of the Kinsey scale. Though, Ryan Reynolds… lol
having done women anally I would just once like to do a guy that way. Of course a guy that was into being a bottom. But I have no idea how they view basically straight guys just looking for a one off.
Try asking this on Grindr and see who messages you
My understanding is that a lot of gay guys fantasize about that very thing.
Not just acceptable, but seen as normal. I have had guys want to insist I was bi because I run hot, and kind of freaky - like they knew and I just had not realized. Um, no.
I was bicurious, and told my friend who’s bi and asked if I could suck his dick. He was fine with it, and I realized after about a minute or two that it was not my thing.
Then I was curious a few years later again, tried it again, and nope, still not my thing.
Depends on how the person identifies as, imo. I wouldn’t bat an eye whether or not they called themselves bisexual or bicurious.
I feel like most guys are sexually opportunistic, flexible, sailors and jailed guys, any port in a storm, right?
But since you have a gem of an open minded wife, would say you are at least bicurious. If you enjoy it and it feels like sex, not performance, then I would say bi. Not before.
You’re the only one who can put a word on your own sexual orientation, decide what it means and change it later if you want.
Also, your sexual experience (or your lack of) doesn’t define who you are. It’s just useful to discover what you like.
Just a red blooded alpha man looking so sew his seed. Labels are so beta.
No straight male is curious lol nothing wrong with it either bro.
I know a guy who had a gay experience in his youth and became absolutely convinced that he was straight
I mean, how do you know if you don’t try? That’s exactly how I know I am straight.
I’m the straightest guy ever. I suck a dick every week just to make sure I still don’t like it.
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