Hiya lemmy! I’m a escort/prostitute from Thailand. Ask me anything!

I’m 5’1 and am usually a sub. Very rarely a dom.

I’ll answer anything that won’t reveal who exactly I am.

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    8 hours ago

    What has made you so successful in this business? Are you particularly good looking? Do you fit a certain niche?

    What makes a great client?

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      7 hours ago

      I work a lot and do all the usual good practices with money. Plus I’m very lucky to start at a big and expensive organization. I also help them out in other areas (tech help, clean ups, shopping etc)

      I’m not amazing to look at but easily far above average. Plus a modest boob job helps.

      I don’t fill a certain niche but I’m willing to do a lot beyond just sex. For example any gf/wife experience with me includes managing the clients houses, dealing with repairs and really a lot of non sex stuff. I help with sexual and non sexual frustrations.

      A great client is a client that know what they want or is at least willing to talk and figure out what they want. The clearer they are the better it’ll be for us both.

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    11 hours ago

    Are you working primarily in Thailand? And if so how is the general scene for sex workers there? Is it safe or no? I know in many countries there are a lot of challenges and even dangers for sex workers. But not sure how it is in Thailand.

    It sounds like you feel safe in your workplace but I’m curious how much you know about others in the industry.

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      10 hours ago

      I work international. I’d say half in thailand and half outside.

      I’m a bit disconnected from the real depths as I never have gone into the more “local” sex scene. I know just much as the public. The same dangers + worse government support.

      I’m very safe. I’m intentionally staying as far from the rest of the industry as I can. Don’t want to accidentally anger trafficers and gangs like them.

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      13 hours ago

      We get to choose our clients so that’s our shifts. Generally it is somewhere between 2 pm to 2am. (At least that’s the time we try to keep it to)

      We’re expected to work at least 7 days a month but most do a little over 14. I’m active around 20.

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    22 hours ago

    Weirdest thing ever happened to you?
    Fave local dish ?

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      21 hours ago
      1. Many many things but most easy to explain is the gang bang with my teachers (many years after they were my teachers). They even requested wearing the uniform.

      2. Gai tod

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          20 hours ago

          I can pick it up in 5 mins on my way home. Usually for the others the wait is more.

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      22 hours ago

      No change on either. I was fairly well exposed to the “real” world since a young age.

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    1 day ago

    When meeting a client for the first time, what are some things you look for in terms of trusting them to treat you alright? Have there ever been situations where you had to turn down a client for some reason? What do you do if you need help?

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      1 day ago

      The organization does a fairly decent background check first. So usually its all good people. Communication is the main thing. If they dislike speaking then it’s a bad sign. (Before starting anything)

      I flatly deny anyone with a micropenis. I’m not sure how to work with them so I don’t want to accidentally hurt them, emotionally or physically. Otherwise I can deny anyone I have a bad feeling about. They’ll be told I’m booked or unwell or something along those lines.

      We have many guards and panic buttons hidden in a lot of places. If the client isn’t trustworthy then they can’t hire us to go anywhere, they’ll have to use our approved hotels and rooms.

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        1 day ago

        That makes me feel better that a support system exists and you have some autonomy 😌

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          1 day ago

          Yes, it’s very good now. I’m very lucky!

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        1 day ago

        That makes me feel better that a support system exists and you have some autonomy 😌

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      1 day ago

      Fake? Many times, based on the client. Real orgasm maybe once a day. With lesbians usually all real orgasms.

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    1 day ago

    What kind of pubic hair grooming style do you see with most of your clients?

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      1 day ago

      Not really a style as much as it’s just a basic trim.

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        1 day ago

        Oh right. I meant like natural, trim, shaved. 😉

        Do you have a preference? What about your colleagues? Is this something you talk about amongst yourselves?

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          Depends. A full shave is best for a BJ, any other hole natural or a decent length trim is best.

          We don’t really talk about this too much as it’s the same opinion for all of us.

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    1 day ago

    At what age did you start and how many years have you been in the business?

    How did you come across the organization?

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        22 hours ago

        I’m assuming the one I work in.

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      1 day ago

      I started when I was 19, so four years now.

      I was scouted by them.

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    1 day ago

    What was your best experience at work?

    What was your most fun experience at work?

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      1 day ago
      1. No idea tbh

      2. Got many but I can’t speak about them without privacy issues.

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      2 days ago

      Imo being shorter helps with being a sub so it could be that. There’s also the society angle.

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    2 days ago

    Do you do anything for your own pleasure outside of work and if so, what?

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      2 days ago

      Nothing for sexual pleasure. I’m practically celibate outside work.

      I’m into handheld gaming and tennis. Tho tennis I usually can play only when I’m out with a few clients. I’m playing tears of the kingdom and xenoblade 2 now.

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    2 days ago

    Related to work- As a sub what services do you offer?

    Related to life-- What are your typical meals and when do you usually eat?

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      1 day ago

      A lot of things . I’m part of a fairly big service so it’s not just me, a bigger organization. I can be hired for just a single BJ to spending weeks on a cruise. Really if you can imagine it and it’s not really unhygienic, it’s probably something we offer.

      There really isn’t any typical meal. My escort side takes me around the world so I usually eat out. So I don’t really like cooking for myself. If i have to it’s usually some sort of rolls or preprepared meals. I always keep a decent amount of electrolytes with me tho. My schedule changes as required so I eat whenever I can.

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      I don’t hate the sex. I like everything else.

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    2 days ago

    what was your reason for getting into this line of work?

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      2 days ago

      Money. Stupid amounts of money if you’re lucky and smart.

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        2 days ago

        But if you had a comfortable income. And you were able to take care of everything. And even have a little left over,would you do it again?

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          I think you’re asking if I could have a similar income with a different job. I would take the different job any day.