Feel free to answer the opposite too - nsfw things you wouldn’t do with a romantic partner, but maybe with a fling!

  • pinkpint
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    3 days ago

    The big things for me are penetration without a condom, which includes cumming inside me, and sharing naughty pics.

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    Making out. I didn’t even really like it when I was partnered.

    Sex is very disconnected from intimacy. I’m not aromantic but sex is not romantic. Sex is me being degraded and used. I submit as an object, the romance might be being cuddled and praised afterwards.

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    As someone else said, breeding. I would not risk getting pregnant with anyone I wasn’t in a stable relationship with.

    To be absolutely honest, I guess it’s an unpopular take but in a perfect world I would not have minded a grab bag kid, not knowing who the dad was wouldn’t have bothered me, I know who the mom is, and I have and like having kids, but we don’t live in that world.

    I think other than that I have nothing I haven’t done with casual partners, that I have done with my two long term guys. And nothing that I’ve done with casual guys, that I wouldn’t do with the long term guys.

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      What’s a “grab bag kid”? Like a kid who was born to a mother who used a sperm donation?

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        Just mean if I didn’t know who fathered my kids, I personally wouldn’t have cared. I didn’t want kids as a secondary result of a romantic relationship, never really wanted to give some guy a kid, just wanted to raise some.

        We don’t live in a world where that works though, kids like to know who their parents are, both of them. And as it turns out I don’t mind keeping a man around, either.

    • lazyneet@programming.dev
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      I’m not quite aromantic but I’m pretty much the same with kink. Do I trust someone enough to do this or that to me? Then you may as well do all of it. I can’t get pregnant anyways.

    • Anomalocaris@lemm.ee
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      technically, you could do lots of stuff with a partner that you can’t do safely at work, like ignoring OSHA. but you shouldn’t

      • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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        5 days ago

        Using a forklift to lift a scissor lift, to lift a ladder to reach the top of a barn was the stupidest thing I’ve ever witnessed in person. My partner was willing to die for $18/hour for a company that could not give a single shit about him… 🤦‍♂️

  • RepressedLemmier
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    I think I would generaly rather not want a romantic partner to know about my vore kink. I would rather not talk about it unless they happen to have it.

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    properly the only correct answer:

    Breeding, not as kink but literally stuffing that pussy with cum without any protection

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    don't judge me

    Hand holding

    given up trying to figure out the spoiler tag, I’m open for someone to tell me how to do it

  • FistingEnthusiast
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    We’re monogamous, so apart from what we do solo, we’re only doing things with (and to!) each other