Dear Julie (not real name),

You are aware that you’ve been restricted from texting me due to past inappropriate behavior and harassment. Using an email to send messages through my mobile carrier is still an infringement on my boundaries. Please refrain from such actions and only communicate with me via the approved method of family email communications.

Thank you.

    • burrito@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      Unfortunately some people do not care about boundaries and this is why you’re here in the first place. I hope the message comes across and she understands it as you are being very clear what your boundaries are. We finally got to the point where we fully cut out the in-laws years ago and it was an immense quality of life improvement.

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        1 year ago

        Oh gosh. It’s good to see folks can relate. My ex-inlaw dad has all the money in the world, but his teeth are so messed up. You think, with all that money he can get them fixed to make his grandkid proud of him.

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          1 year ago

          There are tons of people who can relate so you’re far from alone here. I don’t know much about your specific situation but if you have these issues then you probably deal with many more. I highly recommend the book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. It’s a relatively short read and was an absolute game changer for me dealing with family who have no boundaries whatsoever.

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            1 year ago

            It’s a shit read if you have only one parent open to interpreting it. Sorry, You got a lot of pussies in the family law system.