Please try to be as active as you can. Don’t just come here, fap and then leave. Try to contribute and interact with the communities here. Because it’s not the numbers that will drive growth for Lemmy but the engagement. Even if you don’t want to contribute, you can always comment and interact by downvoting or upvoting posts.

We need to work together to ensure the best success we possibly can for Lemmy and the wider Fediverse.

Fuck Reddit, let’s all try to move away from that absolute shitshow.


On another note: If you can’t view the Lemmy NSFW communities, check out the other locally pinned post for some potential communities you could join.

Spread the Word about Lemmy NSFW if you can, as many instances don’t like hosting NSFW content.

Build your own Community. No fetish is too niche, try creating your own communities to help grow Lemmy NSFW further! (Make sure your community follows all instance-wide rules, though!).

  • @ironsydes
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    301 year ago

    Feels weird actually commenting on porn, but I’m trying. Gotta build this community.

    • @4porn
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      21 year ago

      this is exactly what I was thinking when I made this username

  • Sarothica
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    211 year ago

    “Don’t just come here, fap and then leave.” Haha I love this sentence 🤣

    • @SockyFeet
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      81 year ago

      It had to be said, post-nut clarity is one of the most powerful forces that humans confront.

    • @ndcyozep
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      71 year ago

      That post nut clarity really makes me turn off my phone and sleep in a fetal position

  • @CumslutJayne
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    151 year ago

    I run a couple of subreddits of my own, one with over 100k and one with 10k subs, I will be spreading the word on those subs soon and hopefully be bringing some more traffic here, let’s hope that many are willing to migrate

    • Altair
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      21 year ago

      Please do. I made a community here just now that didn’t seem to be made yet in any instances ([email protected]) that needs activity.

    • @Filth
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      The ways its going its more like migrate or die. I doubt this is the end of their NSFW crackdown.> ubreddits of my own, one with over 100k and one with 10k subs, I will be spreading the word on those subs soon and hopefully be bringing some more traffic here, let’s hope that many are willing to migrate

  • @seeCseas
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    141 year ago

    No fetish is too niche, try creating your own communities to help grow Lemmy NSFW further!

    Are you sure? Wait till the vore / beastality folks show up hehe

    • @AnnoyingPedant
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      Didn’t take long

      • Time 13h
      • mod Admin
      • Banned ******
      • reason: Creating /c/bestiality
  • @FreePussy4All
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    121 year ago

    Finally, a NSFW instance! Is this the first one or have I just been missing them somehow?

    • Choc Mint Combo!
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      101 year ago

      I think most people don’t want to deal with having to moderate to remove CP, basically. It’s a big risk for small timers. Once you get to a certain size, plausible deniability becomes a more functional excuse. Lemmy instances are pretty damn small (at least at the moment), so you can see why peeps want to avoid problems.

    • @wankbank
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      41 year ago

      There are some that allow it, but this (or maybe federotica.com) was the first dedicated instance. There’s also booty.world which is nfsw but very focused on one area.

      Some more nsfw:

  • shy
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    121 year ago

    Despite being an introvert even in online communities, I’ll try :)

  • @luanabuthorny
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    111 year ago

    I’m impressed by how many communities have already been created! Nice!! 💖

  • @BlackSkinnedJew
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    I believe this instance can be the new decentralized NSFW place everyone have been waiting for we just need to promote it.

  • @pornoisseur
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    111 year ago

    Porn. Kingmakers in tech, as always. :)

    • @liminal_sub
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      41 year ago

      If you want to know what the next big tech or platform is going to be, follow the porn.

  • SeroZum
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    101 year ago

    How do I upvote this like 1000 times? It is of utmost importance to participate and engage with communities. Simply creating communities that mirror subreddits won’t achieve anything. If we actually want people to migrate away from Reddit, we MUST provide them an alternative that’s just as lively as their favorite subreddits. Thanks for pinning this post!

    Fuck u/spez. That’s all.

  • @PrettyFlyForAPornGuy
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    91 year ago

    i’ve noticed there doesnt yet seem to be a way to unblur the previews for NSFW posts. is this an instance level setting?

  • @zebra
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    91 year ago

    It’s great having an alternative to Reddit, especially as they make it harder and harder to view NSFW content. Thank you for hosting a NSFW instance, it must be quite a difficult task! ♥️

  • @WoodcockJohnson_
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    81 year ago

    Alright!

    So, uhm, anyone know where exactly a straight guy’s supposed to go to post his absolutely fire-ass* nudes on Lemmy then?

    *this may or may not be slight exaggeration

    • sweaty jack
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      31 year ago

      Please post in the men only / gay subs - I’m wanting to see all your stuff 💦💦💦💦💦

      • @WoodcockJohnson_
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        21 year ago

        Thank you, I’m quite flattered!

        I’m not gay though so the gay communities aren’t really my thing I’m afraid. If there were a men only community with more of a general audience (such as ladybonersgw or beardsandboners on Reddit, for instance), that would be cool though.

      • @WoodcockJohnson_
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        31 year ago

        Really? If it’s anything like the original subreddit there couldn’t be a worse place for that. Nobody went to gonewild to see a dude.

        Then again, there aren’t any real alternatives yet so I suppose it’s worth a try.

        Thanks!

        • @Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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          81 year ago

          Nobody went to gone wild to see a dude

          I would like to tbh, if it’s properly tagged it fits. Guys can definitely go wild.

          • @WoodcockJohnson_
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            We totally can. And I’m not against mixed gender communities either, in fact I even used to moderate one at one point. They’re fun, and it can absolutely work.

            But it’s hard to keep it that way once it becomes the community women post nudes in, as was the case with gonewild. That one was technically mixed gender too, but because there’s usually way more men than women on platforms such as this one, there’s gonna be a disproportionate amount of people that go there for the boobies only. Which usually makes for a suboptimal experience as a male poster.

            • @Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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              31 year ago

              Oh yeah, completely agree. I was just trying to say that I wish it was different bc it would personally appeal to me.

              • @WoodcockJohnson_
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                31 year ago

                Gotcha! Yeah, I agree it’s not a bad idea in principle.

                • @Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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                  Wanted to include that it might work if alternative communities aren’t made for that, it only exacerbates the idea that gonewild is for women if you can only find men posting outside of gonewild. Ignore any people that can’t read tags, keep posting and I’ll keep upvoting it bc I enjoy it at least 👍.

                  Maybe a little biased though as someone that’s pan that’s enjoying everyone posting there 🤭.

            • @Pornphilosoph
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              11 year ago

              /r/Germansgonewild managed to do this. There were quite some good looking dudes on there. Of course the upvote level was different.

              Keep in mind that Lemmy has another ranking algorithm. From my understanding it is less focused on getting the first votes or comments. With enough people voting for all genders in [email protected] there is a decent chance this can be different from old gonewild. It does not have to be an exact copy.

          • @WoodcockJohnson_
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            Thanks, I’ll take a look. These do seem very dick focused though, which I’m not super interested in tbh. Straight up dick pics are kinda boring most of the time (and I don’t think I fulfill the requirements for massivecocks anyway).

            • @gaviM
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              31 year ago

              Nude dudes might be your best bet then. Wanted it to be the most inclusive of the bunch.

      • @squeef
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        11 year ago

        yess please! 🤤

  • Horny But Polite
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    81 year ago

    There isn’t a way to create a post here so I figured I’d ask in a comment.

    I just saw my first OnlyFans related community. How do we feel about OF posts, in non OF communities?

    Personally, I hated them. They push the entire community to be for profit, and you end up killing the community with posts that are fake.

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      If they’re promoting their only fans in a community that doesn’t explicitly state in their rules that promoting is OK, then the poster is violating an instance-wide rule and you should report their post.

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        What if an OF model posts in a community that doesn’t explicitly allow self-promotion but they don’t make any reference to their OF in the post itself, hoping people will check their bio which does link to their OF?

        This was a thing that happened on Reddit and was kinda controversial.

        • Triple Underscore
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          81 year ago

          At that point where someone’s going outside their way to look into bios of posters, I think it makes very little sense to try to stop them. And anybody who doesn’t want to be advertised to can just… not look at bios.

          Of course this line of thinking relies on the quality and relevance of posts models will make.

          • @ayawnymouse
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            31 year ago

            On Reddit many of them seem to use bots or something to post the same pic/clip to as many NSFW subreddits as possible, using horrible clickbait titles (such as lying about sending nudes to anyone who upvotes them. That’s not even possible)

            So some post-quality rules may be needed.

        • @pornellius
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          61 year ago

          Interesting this would have been controversial. I normally would look in their bios precisely to try and see if they had an OF, which sometimes was a welcomed surprise. I added many people as follows/friends/etc because of that.

          • @zeigle
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            It’s pretty silly if you ask me, but I thought it was important to ask since they have such a strict policy here.

    • Triple Underscore
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      In my personal opinion OF models are fine as long as:

      1. They don’t do those obnoxious titles full of emoji (or any other cheap attention grabs).
      2. Their posts are actually related to the community in question, possibly with more scrutiny applied compared to non-OF OC (as they have an incentive to spam as much communities as possible).

      But of course, this is a decision each community can (and IMO should) make for their own needs.

      • @LeftyAutisticKinkyMemer
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        I agree. Its very annoying when you go to someone’s page, they are on OF (not complaining, tbh everyone deserves to make bank if they’re going to put in the work and also expose themselves to the risk of being outed, i mean 99% of the time its girls so yeah) and you literally cannot see unique posts because they’ve spammed shit with the exact same title and content in like literally 20-30 subreddits (many of them barely related).

        I wouldn’t even care as much if they would at least make their own custom restricted subreddit with just their unique content so you could have one feed with the unique content instead of having to scroll and scroll. And its not like you can’t use stickies, there’s usually at least 3-4 and one of them always saying X% off (if something is perpetually 50% off, that’s not “off” that’s just the price, lol)