Ooh, that’s a great point, I bet you’d get a kick out of it! I don’t know why but I always just assumed gay guys didn’t need anything like that, but there’s no reason they shouldn’t.

We really do, she’s helped me open up so much about what I like and want, and just being comfortable talking about it openly. And roughness is kind of a big kink of mine, I’ve dabbled here and there before but mostly it’s been stuff I’ve fantasized about and seen in porn or read in erotica. Opening up to explore it more for real is really exciting for me!