ObserverOfShadows

Safety tips copied from c/fapdeciders who copied it from reddit:

Be wary of anyone including their kik, whatsapp, snapchat, or telegram IDs in the title or description. Especially on Telegram and Whatsapp, your phone number is visible to others by default and can be used by bad actors to narrow down your IRL identity.

Never give out info regarding Age, Name or Location. These can be used to find your social media profiles.

Never send photos of your face or identifying tattoos if requested. It can be temping to do so in exchange for nudes in return, but this is the easiest way to get yourself blackmailed.

Before DMing someone or asking to be DM’d, check the users profile. If they are posting the same thing on multiple subreddits, it is likely a scam or an ad.

Beware of people asking to be at least xx age as they may just be looking for financially suitable profiles.

Beware of very generic posts saying “I’m horny I want to have a good time,” etc.

If the first DM you get is something like “are you you ready for a dirty chat or naughty fun” or similar lines, it will likely turn out to be an OF seller or a scam.

The most common red flag posts I’ve seen lately are F4M posts looking for a male sub. Another red flag is if the username is a bunch if random letters and numbers, or if the username has “mom,” “mommy” or “Goddess” in it.

Safety tips copied from c/fapdeciders who copied it from reddit:

Be wary of anyone including their kik, whatsapp, snapchat, or telegram IDs in the title or description. Especially on Telegram and Whatsapp, your phone number is visible to others by default and can be used by bad actors to narrow down your IRL identity.

Never give out info regarding Age, Name or Location. These can be used to find your social media profiles.

Never send photos of your face or identifying tattoos if requested. It can be temping to do so in exchange for nudes in return, but this is the easiest way to get yourself blackmailed.

Before DMing someone or asking to be DM’d, check the users profile. If they are posting the same thing on multiple subreddits, it is likely a scam or an ad.

Beware of people asking to be at least xx age as they may just be looking for financially suitable profiles.

Beware of very generic posts saying “I’m horny I want to have a good time,” etc.

If the first DM you get is something like “are you you ready for a dirty chat or naughty fun” or similar lines, it will likely turn out to be an OF seller or a scam.

The most common red flag posts I’ve seen lately are F4M posts looking for a male sub. Another red flag is if the username is a bunch if random letters and numbers, or if the username has “mom,” “mommy” or “Goddess” in it.

My opinion may be biased, since I’m a Dom, but I think that other commenters nailed it:

1. It was a quicky, that’s why you didn’t feel anything deep. It seems that you need a longer term or at least better prep’d relations. It is still possible to do it “hypno” style - use, abuse and throw away, but with caring dom it will feel deeper.
2. Give it some time to settle. And look for some other stories / experience from other sissies not on porn sites, but in communities.

At least now you can brag about it, if you want :) And to some degree it is a milestone - first successful IRL encounter. It takes courage to admit and try, so congrats are in order - 🎉

Hi, I’ve just created 2 communities and want to be in the loop in case there are questions/ rules change. Thank you.