Probably being towards the compersion end of the compersion vs. jealousy spectrum. It gets tiring very quickly if a partner gets jealous every time I interact with someone who might conceivably be attractive to me.

For that matter a certain minimum amount of self-esteem is good to avoid having to examine every word and action twice with them in general.

Something about this picture looks odd, very oversaturated for one but there might be other things wrong with it.

Cuddle with one girl on each side afterwards?

Tineye found (among many other sites) that her name is Kayla Erin and her Deviant Art is here https://www.deviantart.com/itskaylaerin/art/Velma-726358512 and this page has more pics from the same set https://cosplaythots.com/p/351

Both left and right have this sort of “I am embarrassed for you you just suggested that” expression that isn’t exactly a turn on.

That was Jeri Ryan.

With Jerboa I frequently accidentally hide comments or click longer usernames in the list of posts instead of opening the post. Comment hiding seems like a pretty useless feature in general.

That might be part of it but I think there is also a sort of sameness, certain aspects that are always the same in the generated images and more varied in real ones. Possibly related to the averaging of all the input data.

Is it just me or do all the AI generated porn images have something in common that makes them immediately recognizable? I am not quite sure what exactly it is but they do all have some quality in common.

There might be a need to handle the cross-community spammers on an instance or Fediverse wide level though, in particular the ones who post to any porn community with the same title and picture regardless of the picture/title being on topic for that community.

The downside of that is that a lot of OF content is posted to dozens of communities and this fact is the main spam problem with them, not necessarily the content in any particular community on its own.

Since the version number at the bottom does not include a -nsfwpatch suffix I assume that hasn’t been ported to 0.18.1 yet.

You can easily look up the owner of the IP address space to get the provider.

Staying quiet is probably a habit developed during teenage maturation years (while still living with parents).

The real question is if there is any benefit at all from federating content that is consumed in very different contexts at all. I mean even if you filter it down to exactly the content you prefer, do you really want your porn consumption interrupted by the latest political news in the same feed? Even if you are interested in both types of content you might not want it at literally the same time.

Similar arguments could also be made for instances meant for children heavily limiting their federation of course to avoid contact with material not meant to be seen by children (news and porn alike).

Honestly, at the current state of Lemmy I just don’t see porn and non-porn instances federating as a good idea. The system would need a whole redesign to avoid storing the porn content on the other instances at all for most instance owners to even consider it. That problem is a lot larger than merely hiding the extreme kinks or all porn posts from the All feed of other instances.

As with any moderation efforts if you publish some clear, limited rules about it trolls will find a way to technically not violate the rules and yet still be obnoxious in some way and then point to the rules to claim you can’t defederate, ban,… them because they didn’t violate your published rules.

As mentioned in my post above, I do not think most NSFW content is actually like that, where the same set of users considers the same content to be undesirable.

It might certainly be a bit better than the current state of affairs but then you also need support across the fediverse for the flags you describe so it will take a while to spread and would still only allow the moderator of the community and maybe the instance admin of that community to control what is seen in the general feed.

I agree that it would have to be Lemmy-wide to be useful, however I do not like inline tagging, that would make it harder to allow others to edit tags and might also only display the tags in shortened versions of the post in previews.

I have been thinking about the whole tagging problem a bit in the last few days and I feel NSFW or even multiple levels of that are not really going to be enough.

For almost any given kink and even just gender and body types or parts displayed there are going to be users who are looking for that content, users who can take it or leave it, users who do not want to see that content in their feed, users who might get into legal trouble if someone sees it on their screen, users and instances who might get into legal trouble if they download that content,…

And of course which user is in which group for any given type of content varies by their preferences, jurisdiction or even where they currently are (home, in public,…).

So I think content will need to be tagged in some way with the type of content and instances and users will need to have configurable filter rules, possibly even multiple rulesets to switch between for home and public.

It is probably not sensible to try to make one global set of possible tags for a federated system like Lemmy.

There might also be some other non-kinky concerns that could be integrated into a filter system like that like text VS audio vs video,… or languages or content warnings for discussions of sensitive topics.

For the actual tagging system it might be useful to look at other websites like f-list, e-hentai or the various picture hosting sites with tagging. Personally I think something with tag pairs or tuples might be useful in a porn context since a lot of kink preferences are gender specific (e.g. people might like anal with a female recipient but not with a male one or vice versa).

Another issue is, of course, who is allowed to add, modify, or move tags and if communities will have a default set of tags for their posts. Tags might also need a flag to display content tagged with it by default or not.

I think I rambled on long enough but I thought some discussion on the topic could be useful, especially while there are few resources to implement things and considering it would be good to get it right on the first try.