As a sub, what would you most wish for? want to avoid?
As a top, how would your reward your good sub? your bad sub?
(What other question(s) did I miss?)
Obviously, there are no right or wrong answers , and other potential outcomes depending on your own D/s dynamics - simply would love to hear from both subs and Doms/Dommes…
As a sub I always want a full orgasm, but I’m usually denied or given a ruined orgasm to keep me in subspace.
A punishment I’ve received is exclusively ruined orgasms for a period of time. I became very uh… dependent on anal stimulation since that was always allowed
What was your longest period for punishment?
Thanks for dropping by and posting. Hope you and your partner will share more of your experiences. And belated welcome to LemmyNSFW! (yes, I looked at your post/comments history…)
Longest was two weeks, ruined orgasm with cum eating every night before bed
You’ve been very well trained then. With the cum eating, do you consider that a punishment or reward (or ?)
Uhhh my relationship with it is complicated. It’s easier when it’s a ruined orgasm because I’m still horny. When I have a full orgasm I don’t enjoy the cum eating nearly as much, but it’s thinking about doing then that I fantasize about…
So idk. It’s more about delivery ig. Licking my cum off the floor is a punishment, licking my cum out of my domme’s pussy is the expectation.
Hmm. I always want to do cum eating then decide not to do it after I’ve had an orgasm… maybe ruined orgasms so I go through with the cum eating is something I should play with after all!
It works. The trick is to commit, immediately. Don’t let yourself relax and relax into your refractory period. Self facials are also good for this.
Personally I struggle the most with eating my cum off of my body like if I cum on my stomach/chest because the act of trying to scoop it all with your fingers just isn’t very sexy. Ruining into a cup or onto a plate or something works well.
Or maybe into/onto food? Not being allowed to eat your dinner (or breakfast!) until you’ve ruined onto it
Ehh yeah that can be hot but it doesn’t have the same conditioning affect I think