• @[email protected]
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    625 months ago

    I’ve seen this conversation come up so many times and I’m never not fascinated by it. I have a nonstop internal monologue, it can be exhausting really. But I can’t fully wrap my head around thinking without it

    • Tiefling IRL
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      5 months ago

      I have ADHD, it’s like having talk radio permanently on in my head. Often times I’ll have an internal monologue playing on top of internal background music.

      • @[email protected]
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        105 months ago

        I have ADHD too but in my case I don’t actually “hear” any of the thoughts. But they exist similar to how you describe. At any given time I can feel multiple different thoughts kind of floating around. When music gets stuck in my head I don’t so much hear it in there as I feel the presence of a song. So I have to talk out loud in order to keep from losing the thread of what I was thinking about.

        • @[email protected]
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          25 months ago

          I’m the same way, if I don’t talk out loud or write my ideas down I can’t think straight. Without an inner monologue my thoughts just feel like a jumbled abstract soup I have to manually untangle by speaking. I also get songs stuck in my head, but I’ve always explained it as feeling a particular part of the rhythm, or almost feeling the lyrics in my mouth like I’m speaking them.

    • livus
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      115 months ago

      Me too. People like you are fascinating to me. When I first found out that everyone thinks differently I went around interrogating everyone I knew about how they think.

      I don’t have an interior monologue unless Im typing, but I sometimes use my internal “sound system” to play music.

      • @[email protected]
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        45 months ago

        Me too!! I had my nephew and his wife arguing at dinner about whether the inner voice was real or god. 🤣

        • livus
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          35 months ago

          I can see that could have that effect! I pretty much need it for typing, it’s like an act of translation. I have to write a lot for work or I probably wouldn’t have started doing it that way.

          If someone is talking or the radio is on when I type I will accidentally include some of the words from those sources.

      • nickwitha_k (he/him)
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        14 months ago

        That’s really fascinating and similar to how I think, I think. Like, typing, reading, or thinking about things that are by nature verbal get internally verbalized but in an atonal “narrator voice”, though it’s still not “quiet” otherwise. I also have what I call my “internal walkman” for playing music in a recording/playback manner (sometimes with some “skips”), rather than any voice of my own.

    • @[email protected]
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      75 months ago

      I too have an internal monologue. I was high on mushrooms and I thought to myself “What would it be like not have an inner monologue?” Then I had an existential crisis on top of an already emotional workout trip.

    • @[email protected]
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      35 months ago

      What happens to your monologue when you’re not thinking about it though?

      When your senses provide information about tastes or sounds, isn’t that a kind of thinking without the monologue?

        • @[email protected]
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          55 months ago

          I’ve battled insomnia for my whole life and not being able to shut off the monologue is the main reason

          • @[email protected]
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            45 months ago

            Try playing tv or radio in s different language. There’s still the sound but you don’t get sucked in.

            • @[email protected]
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              35 months ago

              i’ve found “space music ambience” to work very well, it’s stimulating but not too engaging. Voices don’t work for me no matter what language it’s in, because i’ll try to interpret it.

          • @[email protected]
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            25 months ago

            I struggled with insomnia a lot.

            Podcasts and audiobooks helped me immensely. I have wireless headphones but I don’t “wear” them, I just rest them on top of whichever ear. I turn the volume down to a level where I need to concentrate to hear the words. It’s exceedingly rare that it takes me more than 15 minutes to fall asleep these days. Staying asleep is another story though.

          • @[email protected]
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            14 months ago

            keep your eyes open in the dark; do all the things that trigger your master and tissue specific circadian rhythm like cooler temp, no food before bed, no blue light for hours before bed; blah blah blah

        • @[email protected]
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          15 months ago

          I wouldn’t describe it that way, no.

          I’d like to preface this by saying that I’m not some kind of mindfulness / meditation guru and have no business trying to explain such things to anyone else given I have such a poor understanding myself.

          I think really I’m just talking about feeling feelings. The monologue might be reporting on sensory inputs “that spoonful of peanut butter has a very sticky mouthfeel!” but there’s an underlying feeling. You can kind of feel the feeling and disregard the chatter.

      • @[email protected]
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        55 months ago

        For me, my inner voice is muted when I am focused on something, like working on a task or playing a video game.

        The second I stop focusing, the inner voice starts.

        If I do nothing, it’s usually a song that is stuck in my head.

        As for other senses, for me, it is the same as focusing on a task. When my senses are activated, the inner voice stops.

        If I am reading something and I know thr voice of the person that wrote that, I automatically read in their voice and it is extremely hard to read in my voice.

        • @[email protected]
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          25 months ago

          Does you inner monologue have a voice? Mine is just… Voiceless? Like, pure translation. I never think in “My Voice”.

      • @[email protected]
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        45 months ago

        Mine is constantly whatever song my brain has decided is that days hit. Most of the time im able to tune it out but that doesn’t mean that 100% that songs playing over and over audibly in my head, it just varies how loud it is at that moment

      • @[email protected]
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        15 months ago

        It doesn’t shut off, I think visually and through the experiences of the senses in part too but the words always accompany the images/senses

    • @[email protected]
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      25 months ago

      Same, sometimes I even move my mouth when I talk to myself if I am too engaged in my internal dialogue. Freaks my wife out sometimes.

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        5 months ago

        I think that’s pretty normal to some extent, I remember reading that you can kinda see people’s inner monologue on a head MRI based on tiny movements of speech organs. Take this with a massive grain of salt, no idea where I read that and too lazy to find it right now lol.

        Personally I definitely notice every now and then that when I activate my inner voice I also slightly move my tongue etc. as if I was saying what it says.

    • @[email protected]
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      24 months ago

      It’s fascinating to me, too.

      I have seen everything by now: People who think that only sociopaths have an inner monologue. People who think an inner monologue would be useful, but can’t quite lean in on the concept. People who are confused that some people don’t have an inner monologue. People getting angry at me for even “questioning” the inner monologue, as if it was holy.

      • @[email protected]
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        14 months ago

        It’s an interesting exercise in trying to understand the experience of others while removing our own biases. Doesn’t always go so well I guess! So how do you think?? I really can’t tell from your comment

        • @[email protected]
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          14 months ago

          The brain structures develop to help us navigate through the environment. So of course, at times where an inner monologue is helpful, we will probably have one.

      • @[email protected]
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        14 months ago

        This is a really interesting question. If I were a researcher, I’d try to go chase this topic, since it seems to be fairly quantifiable.

        Like Mudskipper, I can replay music in my head but it has a few caveats: I don’t really process the instruments… I remember the pitch/volume/etc but primarily of vocals. I also replay with the original singer’s voice and not my own. Replaying a few songs in my head now and I can’t even focus on the instruments if there were vocals unless they are critical to how the song works, like a bass drop. If I try to replay music that is instrumental, I get verbal recreations, like someone performing the song acapella. If i focus hard, I can hear instruments instead, but that requires thinking about it. This matches how I ‘sing along’ with instrumental pieces in otherwise verbal songs. It might just be that the backing music isn’t retained, so I can remember the melody, but not, say, a bass line unless the bass is being highlighted.

        Are there people who CAN’T replay music in their heads? Are they immune to ‘ear-worms’ or do they just perceive it differently?