• @[email protected]
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    581 month ago

    I am from the States where circumcision is common, and married an Aussie who is not circumcised.

    Yes, there is a difference. In a lot of ways the presence of a foreskin makes sex and foreplay easier. For instance giving a handjob - most circumcised men don’t like a hand job that includes stroking the glans without lubrication because it hurts, while a foreskin slips over the glans and allows movement.

    Giving head is pretty much the same, though it feels different obviously as there is skin there if the foreskin is not fully retracted.

    Having intercourse is easier and less lubricant is needed, because the foreskin stays somewhat stationary during thrusting, preventing things from drying out.

    Circumcision is so common in the States that most people there have never even seen an uncircumcised male, it doesn’t help that most porn is produced there.

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      131 month ago

      Great reply and spot on to the question! Don’t know how to ask this, but why the need for any lubrication? I’ve had sex with a great many women and only a couple needed extra help. God that question sounds so shitty and intrusive…

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        141 month ago

        It’s fairly common, especially as women age, to make less lubrication to keep up with demand during sex. Especially with PIV the lubricant is drying out with each thrust.

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          112 days ago

          A reply brought me back to this.

          Nah. I’ve had loads of sex with middle-aged women. They’re every bit as wet as the younger women.

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            29 days ago

            There are definitely plenty of women who have no trouble with producing enough lubrication. However “not making enough lubrication” becomes more common with menopause and perimenopause.

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        112 days ago

        Ah, I somehow missed this comment. There are lots of reasons one night need lube, a longer session, a size mismatch, use of toys during, and anal to name a few reasons.

        With enough foreplay anal is possible without lube with an uncircumcised guy, but is definitely not possible with a circumcised guy.

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          112 days ago

          Gods, I was so worried that was a disrespectful question. Thanks for answering.

          I’ve had about 50 partners and only 1 where lube was a must. She was naturally lubed, just that crazy tight.