• Flying Squid
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    As a mod in other coomunities, please report these as quickly as you can. They can generally be taken care of quickly.

  • @Imadethis
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    18 hours ago

    If you think that’s new, come on over to the nsfw side of things. We have a whole cast of zany butts.

  • @[email protected]
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    I really wish we could disable PMs from anyone but admins or mods of comms we subscribe to, like you can on reddit. There will never be a day when I want to receive a PM from anyone on Lemmy. It’s nothing personal, there’s lots of cool people here, but I’m not interested in being pen pals. I’m just here for the public forum.

    • @RedditRefugee69
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      310 hours ago

      Goddamn it. I was just about to send you a gif of my genitals.

    • @[email protected]
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      531 day ago

      Ooh! You sound sexy and I definitely want to be your pen pal! I’ve sent you a DM!

      Also, I have a great business opportunity for you if you’re interested! Have you ever heard of NFTs?

      NFTs went away for a while because of crime and scams, but they fixed all those problems I swear. NFTs are the sexiest investment a sexy person could make, and they’re even better now that the leaders are implementing AI! It’s going to be revolutionary! It’s like E = Mc2, but now it’s E = Mc2 + AI. It’s the bees knees! It’ll make Stephen Hawking blush! I’ll help broker it for you, and if you send me 1 NFT, I will send you 2 back just because I like you.

      Can’t wait for your reply!! ❤️

      • @[email protected]
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        131 day ago

        If we were on Reddit, OP’s inbox would get flooded with messages, but Lemmy isn’t active enough for that…

      • @[email protected]
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        420 hours ago

        30ish / nonbinary per presidential decree / Land of the Free™~(Terms and conditions apply)~

    • @[email protected]OP
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      416 hours ago

      Sure, but did you at least add context about why you’re messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

      Because that would be kind of normal. That’s what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

      • @[email protected]
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        216 hours ago

        Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn’t seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

        • @[email protected]OP
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          316 hours ago

          I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There’s no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

          Like, if you’re sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

  • @[email protected]
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    1924 hours ago

    Got 4 copies of it, I don’t even know how to send a message to “all” here, didn’t think it was possible.

      • HubertManne
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        211 hours ago

        Its almost insulting. Its like. Hey. If im gonna be catfished it should be by someone who seems way out of my league. thank you very much.

  • @[email protected]
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    520 hours ago

    Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.

    • @[email protected]
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      29 hours ago

      Well you shouldn’t feel loved.

      This has nothing to do with you as a person and I would never want you to feel loved undeservedly. Because I care about you.

      (Please don’t take my overwhelming kindness in the wrong way and feel as if you’re receiving any kind of love from me. As previously stated, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with me being an excellent person.)

      • @[email protected]
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        18 hours ago

        I was being sarcastic …

        It’s like saying you feel loved when a bunch of flies are swarming you or when you get pulled out of line to be screened by airport security or you get some weird reply on dumb comment you made.

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          I tried to make it as clear as possible I was riffing on your joke. I don’t believe in having to label sarcasm with “/s” because it implies the people reading it are too stupid to recognize an ironic comment.

          • @[email protected]
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            16 hours ago

            Sorry my bad, I’m having a shitty weekend and I think my brain has quit on me, I’ve missed a couple of obvious things this weekend.