• @[email protected]
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      31 year ago

      I had this same experience on a second date with someone I met on Tinder. Seemed like a real fucking quick way to get myself locked up.

  • @[email protected]
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    Asked me to drug her at a bar and then take her home. I’m fine with CNC, but not out in public where no one else knows that first C is there.

  • Neeka
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    Renegotiating consent when spaced and horny.

    We planned and negotiated for a session, strictly no genital involvement agreed. When shit got intense, hot and heavy, they were very very angry with me not penising them.

    Good discussions on informed enthusiastic consent were had.

    • naticus
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      Yep, been there. I go to her place, first time we ever met. Within a few minutes she makes me promise I will not be penising her. I agree because I’m only a part time dbag, not 100% a dick.

      The night gets interesting, we both drink way more than we should on a first meet, lots of handsy action and everything but the agreed upon limits of consent.

      “Why won’t you?”
      “You made me promise I wouldn’t.”
      “Please?”
      “No, but I’ll do anything else you’d like.”
      “Whhhhyyyyyy”

      This went on for hours. Never saw her again because she was apparently so upset I kept my promise, she didn’t want to see me again. It’s a weird sometimes-regret where I know I did exactly what I should have done, but had I not we both would have had more fun and maybe have had a repeat encounter.

      • @[email protected]
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        Regarding your regret, I know it’s not much, but this internet stranger is proud of you for sticking to your promise.

        • naticus
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          Thanks, truly appreciate that. I know it can be difficult in the heat of the moment to stick to a promise like that, and I could easily have had a moment of weakness.

          • @Moebius
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            11 year ago

            Bro, you are a man of your word. That shit is fucking rare these days.

    • @[email protected]
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      You: Sorry, Sir. As per our contract dated 14th August, 2023, paragraph 3, section 2 (b) and I quote “…no Penising, not even the tip, shall be allowed after 19.99 minutes of vigorous sex acts”. The time is now 19.995 minutes. I must advise you of the penalty clauses as listed in the Appendices I, II and IV should you persist in breaking our prior agreement. Good day, Sir!

    • tws
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      I had a parallel experience, renegotiating consent using their dominant position to define boundaries.

      Nope nope nope, not how this is supposed to work.

  • Polar
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    Punch her in the face. Like slapping I could work up to, but she wanted me to punch her. Give her a black eye.

  • @[email protected]
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    Guy wanted me to burn him with cigarettes, but he didn’t smoke and neither do I. After spending 20 minutes looking for a convenience store that was open, the mood was kinda gone.

    • radix
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      This is such a memory… I can imagine a nice and chaotic friendship after this.

  • @[email protected]
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    I did a couple of scenes with a friend. Turns out he wasn’t really into the sex part. Just wanted to torture someone.

    It was a few minutes into our second one when I realized I was just in for a few hours of pain again, so I called it.