Last week I got to try such a cane and damn it was painful XD

The picture was taken a few days after, I love how you can see a bruise for ever single hit (also the two parallel lines are pretty ^^). My lower leg had even more, but I sadly don’t have a good picture of it. I definitely like it and will use it again soon, hopefully with some good pictures

Damn, the metal rings look mean 😅

For me it was when I was crashing at a friend’s place and we were both bored. A mutual friend (with lots of bondage experience) had taught him a simple rope handcuff and we tried to do it. Afterwards we wanted to do more and over the span of a weekend we got kinda good at it.

I loved getting restrained, feeling the rope and being unable to move. I never learned any rigging myself and became a full on ropebunny instead LOL

Also, turns out I’m really into pain, impact play and bondage mix very well. From there on out I started getting into more and more other kink topics and I keep on discovering more things I like

LOL

So apparently the plant which is called “Raps” in german is called Rapeseed in English. You learn something new every day XD

My personal recommendations: get the big candles, not the thin ones. They produce way more wax and don’t fall over as easily. I also had a problem with them where they would melt a channel on the side and just leak out most wax. Also, as said before, colors similar to your skin tone might not show as well on camera

The producer is named Flame Marked Candles, but their website is in german

Thanks ^^ I should have known beforehand that white wouldn’t really be visible on my skin, but now I know better for the next time I’m buying candles

The entire rope structure doesn’t seem safe. I’m unsure if I should remove this post for showing potential bodily harm

Nice ^^ looks really good on you

I also really love the color :o

Oh yeah, it took two other women to get that job done!

I hope you too will find some ways for yourself to not get abused through it. Always remember that your consent comes first, no matter what the rest of your body says in the moment

Sounds really interesting. I have always used a baton instead if I wanted a deeper pain

Not really, if you look below the bruise there is a small red stripe from one of the hits. They are usually longer and only a bit wider than that when they are still fresh. I really love those intense, sharp pains from a cane. The bruise got made with multiple dozen hits from different angles to get that nice big spot. It doesn’t look that intense initially, but develops over a few days to become a deep purple (pictures from later days have a much stronger coloration).

I never used rattan, so I can’t really compare the two. From what I can gather it’s a type of wood/stick? Carbon doesn’t bend at all, so the force you use translates really well onto the skin. I’ll see if I can try using rattan soon to make a proper comparison

Yesss 🥰🥺

For me, no. It’s hard to archive because of the testosterone blockers. And doing a good session of heavy impact play will relax me more than an orgasm ever will anyways.

It obviously looks like a direct cause, but it’s quite irrelevant in my case

Honestly, there isn’t one. Especially as a man. We have this concept of “chasers”, basically creeps that fetishize and mistreat trans women, and every way to ask this makes you look like one. You could maybe put this into your dating profile or be very upfront about it, but that also will reduce your chances of success

I’d definitely say >75% still have one. Many more than that want a surgery, but most can’t get one due to the costs

Nice! ^^ awesome to know I inspire others LOL

Oh definitely. I’m living the best life out here. Everything bad that can happen is just a stepping stone to the future and you’ll learn from it for later

Well, I’m a trans woman. Most people I date are trans woman. If you take testosterone blockers as part of a hormone feminization therapy you are going to inevitably loose some penile functionality. So penetrative sex is not very usual for me. But I prefer doing BDSM activities way more anyways. Due to that sex doesn’t really end with somebody cumming, but whenever everybody is too exhausted to continue instead.

Overall I would consider that comparatively unusual, especially the kind of kinks that make up most of it

Supersaurus, because…

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