I’m an F24 - Do guys find it more or less attractive if a girl is into anal/ass play? And why do u feel that’s the case?

  • Phoenixz
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    204 days ago

    Sorry to ask but… You say you’re F24, but 4 months ago you were F22. So unless you aged rather quickly, or you forgot your real age already at 24, or something is a little bit fishy here…

  • @[email protected]
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    33 days ago

    Its as attractive as much as you’re into it.

    Pleasing your partner, hitting their buttons, is attractive to everyone of any sex.

    If slamming you raw without a warm up drives you over the edge? Sure let’s go.

    If slowly warming you up with a tongue, fingers, plug and more. Let’s fucking go.

    I’m down to make my girl squirm, twist and tremble. Just gotta find and hit the buttons whether that’s anal, spanking, choking, gentle spooning or oral.

    Attraction is making my partner feel good and them wanting me. Get cock hungry. Specifically for them. Ask to slip, stretch or slam whatever hole floats your boat.

  • FriendlyBWC
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    134 days ago

    It is no more or less attractive. Just something fun to explore.

  • @chdrchyz
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    4 days ago

    There are people all over the spectrum. I find anal with my wife to be super hot. She orgasms really hard from anal. That isn’t the case with everyone. Honestly, if she didn’t love it, it wouldn’t be super high on my list. I get off by getting her off.

    Being willing to try new things is admirable and sexy, but so is someone who has boundaries that they can openly and proudly share.

    Let a thousand flowers bloom. Everyone’s preferences with a consenting adult are valid and appropriate.

  • @nerv
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    114 days ago

    I would say that if the degree of atraction someone has for you depends on you being into anal, that is not the right person for you.

    I personally enjoy anal. My partner enjoys it as well. It’s great, we have a lot of fun. My previous partner did not. And that was fine as well.

    Do you enjoy anal? Or do you not? If you do, great. If you do not, great.

  • Majorllama
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    64 days ago

    It’s of no concern to me. I think vagina feels superior in every single way and I don’t like all the prep that women have to do on their ends (heh) for receiving. I would rather do a number of other things before that in the bedroom

    That being said if SHES into it I won’t object. Its just not anything that I particularly have any extra drive to do.

  • @RepressedLemmier
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    4 days ago

    I find that very interesting. The more ways someone has to play with themselves, the more interesting.

  • @DavidDoesLemmy
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    64 days ago

    It’s not a deal breaker for me if a woman is not into it. But if she is into it, it’s a huge plus! Total marriage material!

  • @[email protected]
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    4 days ago

    I don’t. But that’s a personal choice.

    However I think one of the main reasons why some are that attracted to it is because of the “forbidden” nature of the act.

  • The Snark Urge
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    54 days ago

    It’s complicated, but also simple. The thing is, the better you know yourself and are honest about it, the better. You might lose points with people who don’t have the same interests but would be an okayish match, but by being clear about what genuinely gets you going you’ll make sure you don’t miss out on someone who’d be a great match, and that’s what really counts. Never judge yourself by the ones who aren’t interested.

  • @[email protected]
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    44 days ago

    If your partner is into it then it becomes a change from the usual. I wouldn’t want to do it as much as vaginal sex and neither would my girlfriend. But occasionally she suggests it. I prop her off the side of the bed with a pillow under her so I have a great view of her asshole. Spend lots of time lubing her up. When I can comfortably get my thumb inside her ass I begin slowly shoving my cock in. Feels great because it so much tighter than a vagina.